When you visit the adult cams often, soon you will find your favorite actress. One girl that has all the qualities you admire; the looks and the sexual prowess. She gives you all the attention you want. As you meet often, you start to wonder how it would feel if you can reach her in real person so that she becomes your girlfriend. Are you starting to feel something for her? Does she look so awesome for you?
But before you define your feelings whether its infatuation or love it isn’t wise to nurse such kind of thoughts about the webcam girl in the first place. Falling in love with a porn star would be a grossly mistake. Below are eight reasons why you shouldn’t fall in love with the cam girl:
- She is offering the same treatment to several other men
The live cam girls are merely doing their work. It demands that they treat every customer with care and the attention they deserve. So when she is becoming extra attentive to you, don’t start to get the feeling that she has fallen or you. She will do the same thing to the next client. The camera girl will be extra polite during conversations, respond to most of your request if not all and laugh back warmly at you. Do you know why; only because you are paying her to do so. Don’t let it be a reason to fall for her.
- You barely know her
Most likely you have never met her in person. You only meet her behind the camera for the private chats. Most conversations that people hold on chat avenues are sex-centered. It doesn’t give you all-round information about her. Cam sex is the primary focus of an adult webcam site. In the real world, it’s not only about sex that defines how much to love a girl.
- Most men will hit on her assuming she is cheap
Thousands of men watch live sex cams. Consequently, they have seen the girl that you have a crush on naked and probably have phone sex with her. In their mind, they know her like the cheap girl that is easy to nail or lay. Having seen her naked often gives the men courage to approach her. Thus when you fall for the girl be prepared that you will most likely hear men hit on her desiring to have quick sex with her. Therefore it is building your relationship on a volatile ground. The misconception is due to her work.
- She will be hot and draw unnecessary attention
Webcam sex girl has to be undeniably hot and sexy. Consequently, they know the critical parts of their bodies that will attract the attention of most men. For that reason they will do anything to enhance their looks and hence be undeniably appealing; enhanced butt size, boobs, have tattoo engraved on their chest and thighs.
Coupled with the fact that she had been a public figure, she will leave most men with watering mouths and whispers. That can be embarrassing.
- Her work is associated with shame and reproach There are people in the society who haven’t accepted the position of the webcam girls in the modern society. The job is still being frowned upon by most people. Your circle of friends will come to notice her nature of work; doing cam sex for a living. Consequently, people will judge her negatively and even call her names. Falling for the showgirl would, therefore, call for reproach from the public
- You wouldn’t be comfortable accompanying her to award-winning shows and film openings
Every man would be proud of the achievements of her wife or girlfriend. Thus you wouldn’t hesitate to accompany her to such events. However, that is precisely opposite when you have cam sex girlfriend. When you attend a grand film opening with her, you might meet many men giving you a strange look. Look insinuating that they have laid your wife. Who would be comfortable with that? The climax of such a show would crowd cheering from the strip dances, moaning and groaning from your nude girlfriend on the screen. That wouldn’t be fun viewing.
- Jealousy would crop into your relationship
The job that live cam girls do is just like what strippers. It’s getting nude on camera and staging sexual performances. It would demand her to perform virtual sex with many men in exchange for dollars. Thus many of those males would get obsessed with her and even view her as their girlfriend. Consequently, some may even sneer at her in public. Such behaviors may give birth to jealousy.
- She has unpredictable timetable
Webcam girls have unpredictable work schedules. A client can book them anytime for a show. Having such a girl would mean at times rescheduling your dates in favor of her job. The unforeseen stage performances will often be a drawback in your traveling planning.
So next time you are falling for a show.